Sometimes, it’s not about the grand gestures or the out-of-this-world proclamations of love that solidify the strength of a relationship that you have with another person. Those over-the-top gestures that you see in the romantic movies can indeed play a part, but not a very big one.
A bulk of what makes a relationship special is composed of the little things that take place in the relationship daily. It’s all about the simple details surrounding your romance that can give you an idea as to whether it’s a special one or not.
You don’t want to wait for your significant other to come up with some grand gesture for you to know that you’ve found the right person already. Take note of the little things. It’s all about the tiniest details in your relationship that can give you a clue as to whether you’re in the right relationship or not. Here are a few things that you might want to be on the lookout for:
1. You laugh as much as possible whenever the two of you are together. It’s just always a good time and a positive atmosphere whenever you’re spending time with each other.
2. You can both stay up all night just talking to one another without running out of things to say at all.
3. You enjoy doing chores and errands together just because it gives you an extra opportunity to spend more time with one another as a couple.
4. You fall in love with the simplest things about one another. Even the details that other people don’t typically take notice of, you are just absolutely obsessed with.
5. You both want to spend most of your time together, and you never get sick of it. You never grow tired of just spending your time with one another because you genuinely treasure all of your opportunities to bond.
6. Don’t mind the traffic and the time wasted on long drives because you’re together. You enjoy those long car rides together.
7. You always have so many inside jokes because you are always looking to laugh and have a good time with one another. You are intimate with each other in ways that you aren’t with anyone else in the world.
8. You never shy away from expressing your gratitude or appreciation for each other. You are always so willing to let the other know that you genuinely value them and that you appreciate everything that they do for you. You never take one another for granted.
9. Making the other happy is always going to be a priority between the two of you. Neither of you acts selfishly anymore because you are always looking to accommodate the other person into your life in an intimate capacity.
10. You feel comfortable to say anything that you want to one another without the fear of being judged, criticized, or ridiculed. You know that it’s always going to be a safe space of communication and expression for the two of you.
11. You always remember the littlest things about each other. Even the most mundane dates or details about each other’s lives never escape your memory.
12. You are always feeding each other compliments even when there isn’t a reason to do so. You just genuinely enjoy making the other happy. You like to boost your partner’s confidence all of the time.
13. You don’t walk away from arguments with one another. You know that there are specific issues in your relationship which you need to address. And you can’t afford to sweep them under the rug.
14. Even when you’re in a room of crowded people, you always find a way to go back to one another. You are still thinking of each other. You are always most comfortable when it’s the two of you against the world.
15. No matter what kind of problems you have, you both know that the other is going to be there for you. You are always assured of backup so as long as the two of you stay together in your relationship.
16. You know that you are always going to have a reliable travel buddy whenever you are looking to go off on an adventure.
17. You have someone to learn from always. You are both able to provide each other valuable perspective that you wouldn’t be able to come to on your own. You learn from each other, and you grow together as a couple.
18. You know that you have someone to turn to whenever the world seems a little too harsh or overwhelming. You always have a robust support system no matter what with one another.
19. You take great pride in what you have formed with one another. You know that you have something special.
20. Whenever you look at them, you already envision your future.